Up until I started working, I didn’t really encounter that question. When I did start working, people started asking me that question.

Them: Where are you from?

Me: Canada.

Them: Where are your grandparents from?

Me: Canada.

Them: Ok, where are your great grandparents from?

Me: Canada.

It’s irritating sometimes. I just want to exist, do my job and go home, like anyone else. Once is ok, twice is odd, three times is weird, and the fourth time is a pattern.

The only accent that I might have would probably be from Newfoundland, Canada, as I grew up with a lot of people from there. I also talk too fast sometimes.

Have you had similar experiences, and if so, how did you handle it? Can fast speech patterns cause this? Why do random people care so much?

    • ColeSloth
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      Well you either look or sound funny/different. I’d say since you get asked about grandparents etc it’s not sound, so you don’t look local Canadian.

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      You say you look “pretty” white, that’s like how “not really” isn’t a “no”.

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      ok, but are you? what’s your ethnicity? Just wondering.