• WandererEnglish
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    Do people even use the term young adult anymore?

    Infantising of adults I think is a huge issue we have in society.

    It was the case that 16 was defacto adulthood in years gone by. Now I hear people saying you aren’t an adult till 25 or 30! If there are 25 year old wandering around that aren’t adults it’s a failing of the parents and society.

    In school when we hit ~16 we got treated entirely differently, the teachers talked to us instead of parents, we was in control of our time. They joked with us. It really made me grow up because I got treated like a grown up.

    Same thing with scouts and rugby when I was younger, being pushed to be responsible made me grow. As eduction improves overtime we should be making more capable 18 year old not less.

    *when I use the term young adult I mean ~16. Apparently young adult can also mean 18-25 but I’ve never seen it used in that context before.

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      It’s more of an American thing I think. A 20-year-old child, I’ve literally seen that phrase used. Mental.

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        with modern science, we have learned that the prefrontal cortex hasn’t fully developed until around age 25. does that mean you’re a child at 24? no. but you are adolescent, and we should have some cognizance about that

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          I have ADHD, I don’t think mine will ever fully develop.

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          If you cannot behave like an adult by the age of 24 there’s something more wrong with you than your prefrontal cortex.

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            This is not about behaviour, it’s about brain functions. Humans brains under the age of 25 function in a different way, because they are not fully developed, no matter what behaviour people learnt to show.

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              I was 24 years old. I was the same person I am now that I’m over 50.