I am not a native English speaker and I have sometimes referred to people as male and female (as that is what I have been taught) but I have received some backlash in some cases, especially for the word “female”, is there some negative thought in the word which I am unaware of?

I don’t know if this is the best place to ask, if it’s not appropriate I have no problem to delete it ^^

  • gramie
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    One place where it makes sense to use the word female as a noun is when an individual word like “woman” doesn’t work. For instance, if there are girls and women together, neither “women” nor “girls” is appropriate. In that case, I think “female” is the only option. I’d be happy to hear if anyone has an alternative.

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      In that case I still try to avoid “females”, instead I prefer using “ladies” or just “women”, even if there are girls present.

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        Even if the girls are toddlers?

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          Just say “ladies” at that point.

          It’s not like it’s hard to do.

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            Ok but what if they don’t hold any land or titles?