• BarbarianEnglish
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    “It takes a village to raise a child” is an old expression for a reason. Historically (EDIT: And today in most of the world), parents wouldn’t take care of their kids 24/7. They would have parents, siblings, neighbours and friends to help share the load.

    The idea that parents and parents alone do 100% of everything to raise a child is a very modern western thing.

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      We better adapt soon becuse the village is dead and it isn’t coming back.

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        For the families who can afford it, daycare is the replacement.

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          Where I live it’s literally cheaper to lease an electric car than it is to put a kid 5 days per week in daycare.

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        Actually play groups and friend networks are pretty common now