ngl I may prefer lemm.ee, just saying

  • anothermember
    10·
    10 months ago

    Beehaw is a quieter experience than most because it has narrower federation, but you do tend to get a better signal to noise ratio since you miss the spammier instances - I like it.

    Beehaw also doesn’t federate downvotes which I think is an improvement.

    • deegeese
      10·
      10 months ago

      Beehaw is such a nice place to visit, but I’m too much of an asshole to live there.

      • anothermember
        10·
        10 months ago

        Posting from a Beehaw account I think does have a psychological effect on me that causes me to naturally tone things down a bit. I think it’s been good for me.

    • inverted_deflector
      00·
      10 months ago

      Yeah and in addition to that the overall “be(e) nice” rule means that people are generally just a lot more pleasant to be around and less abrasive than what I see in some of the other larger instances.

      Only issue is I recently opened another account because theyre leaving lemmy eventually and currently my posts dont federate and all my subscriptions are pending.

      • anothermember
        10·
        10 months ago

        Only issue is I recently opened another account because theyre leaving lemmy eventually and currently my posts dont federate and all my subscriptions are pending.

        Nothing’s concrete yet. I have accounts on several instances for their various advantages, but Beehaw is what I’ve settled on as my main “default” for now. The Subscribe Pending is a bug, I don’t think it affects your posts federating so they’re separate issues if that’s the case.

  • blakeus12 [they/them, he/him]English
    10·
    10 months ago

    hexbear and lemmygrad are fantastic. makes me feel very welcome and safe as a queer person (i am bisexual) that the admins will always crack down on queerphobia in any form. very cool for our trans comrades as well! lemmy.ml is a close third place, many cool ppl on there especially comrade dessalines.

  • TadeuszBonawentura
    10·
    10 months ago

    mander.xyz is my favorite. Love and subscribed to the most of the communities it have.

  • JCPhoenixEnglish
    10·
    10 months ago

    I’m enjoying Beehaw. I really haven’t looked around at other instances that much, but it’s pretty chill here.

    • db0
      10·
      10 months ago

      It’s not a cult, I swear! :D

      • KDE
        10·
        10 months ago

        db0 , i really like your server tbh but my monyet.cc is serving me currently well the fact that you have a photon , tensorrect etc as alternate frontends is kinda cool as well :p thanks man , we as a community appreciate your instance and its c/piracy -fellow pirate

        • db0
          10·
          10 months ago

          That’s what I like to hear!