• ValenThymeEnglish
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    ay you probably have right-left confusion and many people suffer from it!

    Is the worst because nobody believes you that it’s your brain they just think you’re dumb and can’t remember left from right and tell you to make an L and stuff.

    • Madlaine
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      I always imagine a (local) car, and remember which side the driver sits on

      • ValenThymeEnglish
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        yeah it’s weird the issue isn’t that I can’t deduce right from left. Is more that when queried the brain will immediately and confidently return the wrong answer.

        It’s like knowing the difference between a carrot and a cucumber but if someone holds one up and asks you what it is you will confidently answer incorrectly half the time.

        So you have to remember that even though you think you know the difference you actually half to take a second to make sure you have the right vegetable. Despite there being zero unsurety about it. Is madness and you sound like a loon describing it is half the problem.

        • Madlaine
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          I get that. My intuition often mixes both up, too.

          That’s why I trained myself to say “driver-side” and “passenger-side” in my head when left or right come up. To a point where I don’t even have to think about thinking about it. I just visualize which side of car is meant instead of the rather abstract concept of left and right

          Might not help you; but it helps me

          • ValenThymeEnglish
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            that doesn’t work because it’s a mental condition and you still get it wrong. It’s hard to explain if you don’t have it, like I said. You just sound like a fool trying to explain it.

            It also affects things like east/west in general and even two light switches that are next to each other but have different functions. It’s an actual condition and there’s a test at that link to see if your brain is affected by it.

            • Madlaine
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              Well, my brain seems to be affected by it according to that test (difference score of 11) if I interpret the scale correctly

              But well, I also got autism and quite a few other mental conditions and learned all my life to cope quite well with all my disabilities; that’s why I specifically outsource direction question to a visualization that make the answer more tangible for me than listening to my intuition.

              But well, what works for some doesn’t necessarily work for all. And probably my other conditions have some influence on it as well. We’re all different, after all; even if sharing a few traits.

              • ValenThymeEnglish
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                yeah I have tried driver/passenger in the past and still got it wrong so i just point and tell people to ignore whatever i say and follow my finger when driving which is the only time it’s usually critical. also my partner knows if I say ‘real left’ that i have double or triple checked myself. like you say you learn to cope!

                it sucked in the past when I didn’t know about it and people would ask me for directions and then later realize i flipped something on them

      • mexicancartelEnglish
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        They sit on different sides in different countries though You are lost on another country

        • Madlaine
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          That’s why I explicitly stated local.*

          I don’t care which country I’m in and how they are driving there. I obviously visualize cars I grew up with.

          E: well, I see how local can be interpreted as exactly the opposite of what I mean oops

    • SwearingRobin
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      Me and my dad are the same, on the left and right problem, never knew anyone else that had that problem, or that it had a name! I thought we were just weirdos :p

    • iegod
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      I believe it’s your brain but that’s not mutually exclusive from dumb.